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Two fundamental elements of dating/living together/marriage Book 2 of 2- Money and Money- English
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Basically, this is a book about two fundamental elements of dating/living together/marriage.
Two most important fundamentals in marriage are intimacy and money.
This book is written by a physician, M.D., and it may feel to you that this is not a medical book, but to be honest, it is.
This book focuses on your healthy mental health, persistent happy family health, marital health and financial health.
Our life in 2021 is very dynamic, very complex, and we are highly emotional people.
Whether we date, live together, or marry, there is a relationship between two people and these two facts, Intimacy and Money, they are the most important reasons for us to either be happy in that relationship or very unhappy in that relationship.
Almost always, the most important reason for a couple breakup/ separation, and especially in a marriage for divorce is, these two issues- Intimacy and Money.
All the studies have shown that if couple treats each other with respect, trust, and are equal partner, then risk of infidelity is very low and you will have an enjoyable relationship.
These are the two important issues. Young couples sometimes do not talk or discuss about it. Both of the partners involved, whether in dating/living together/marriage, have to understand that sooner they address these both issues, happier they will be and it will lead to stability of their relationship.
So, in the first book, we have written whenever couple comes together, obviously common sense says it, but medically speaking, psychologically speaking, Intimacy is the most important factor in relationship.
Intimacy does not have to be a physical intimacy only. More than physical intimacy, emotional intimacy is more important and if you are not happy with each other, or you are having constant conflicts with each other whether it is about money or it is about intimacy, you will find it very difficult to be intimate with each other or you will feel insecure when it comes to money issues.
Every psychologist will tell you about the facts which we have written in this book.
Whenever you two cannot come to an agreement, you can always and you should seek counseling, especially if you want to continue relationship whether it is dating, living together, or eventually getting married.
In 2020, there is only one reason for the sudden death, and that is "Heart Attack". That too can be postponed by 15-30 years with 3 basic tests.
Similarly, there are other factors also which decrease our lifespan. For example:
If we smoke then we will get lung cancer in 20 years.
If we drink excessively, liver will fail in 20 years.
If Hba1c = 10/11 or blood sugar is approx. 300 (with no symptoms), then kidney will fail in 15 years.
If we exercise everyday, we can delay memory loss.
If we do knees exercise, they will be good till 70-75 years.
If we have high cholesterol with no symptoms, it will dramatically increases the risk of heart attack.
Increased BP (with no symptoms) will lead to sudden stroke where half of the body gets paralyzed (right side of the body gets paralyzed and patient loses speech also).
In our day to day life we have simple steps to deal with these conditions as we have simple yearly tests available. We must have awareness about all these tests.
If we get these regular tests done at recommended interval and maintain our numbers within the normal range, then we can add 15-30 years healthy to our life, and extend lifespan up to 85 years.
૨૦૨૦ માં, અચાનક મૃત્યુનું એક જ કારણ છે, અને તે છે “હાર્ટ એટેક”. તે પણ ૩ મૂળ પરીક્ષણો સાથે ૧૫-૩૦ વર્ષ સુધી મોકૂફ કરી શકાય છે.
તેવી જ રીતે, ત્યાં અન્ય પરિબળો પણ છે જે આપણી આયુષ્ય ઘટાડે છે. દાખ્લા તરીકે:
જો આપણે ધૂમ્રપાન કરીશું તો 20 વર્ષમાં અમને ફેફસાંનું કેન્સર થઈ જશે.
જો આપણે વધુપડતું દારૂ પીએ તો યકૃત 20 વર્ષમાં નિષ્ફળ જશે.
જો એચબીએ1સી = 10/11 અથવા બ્લડ સુગર આશરે છે. ૩૦૦ (કોઈ લક્ષણો વિના), પછી કિડની ૧૫ વર્ષમાં નિષ્ફળ જશે.
જો આપણે રોજિંદા વ્યાયામ કરીએ છીએ, તો આપણે મેમરી ખોટમાં વિલંબ કરી શકીએ છીએ.
જો આપણે ઘૂંટણની કસરત કરીશું, તો તે ૭૦-૭૫ વર્ષ સુધી સારી રહેશે.
જો આપણી પાસે કોઈ લક્ષણો વગરનું કોલેસ્ટ્રોલ વધારે છે, તો તે નાટકીય રીતે હાર્ટ એટેકનું જોખમ વધારે છે.
વધેલા બીપી (કોઈ લક્ષણો વિના) અચાનક સ્ટ્રોક તરફ દોરી જાય છે જ્યાં શરીરનો અડધો ભાગ લકવાગ્રસ્ત થઈ જાય છે (શરીરની જમણી બાજુ લકવોગ્રસ્ત થઈ જાય છે અને દર્દીની વાણી પણ ગુમાવે છે).
આપણા રોજિંદા જીવનમાં, આપણી પાસે વાર્ષિક પરીક્ષણો ઉપલબ્ધ હોવાથી આ શરતોનો સામનો કરવા માટે આપણી પાસે સરળ પગલાં છે. આપણે આ તમામ પરીક્ષણો વિશે જાગૃતિ હોવી જોઈએ.
જો આપણે ભલામણ કરેલા અંતરાલ પર આ નિયમિત પરીક્ષણો કરાવીએ અને સામાન્ય સંખ્યામાં અમારી સંખ્યા જાળવીએ, તો આપણે આપણા જીવનમાં 15-30 વર્ષ તંદુરસ્ત ઉમેરી શકીએ છીએ, અને 85 વર્ષ સુધી આયુષ્ય લંબાવી શકીએ છીએ.
In 2020, there is only one reason for the sudden death, and that is "Heart Attack". That too can be postponed by 15-30 years with 3 basic tests.
Similarly, there are other factors also which decrease our lifespan. For example:
If we smoke then we will get lung cancer in 20 years.
If we drink excessively, liver will fail in 20 years.
If Hba1c = 10/11 or blood sugar is approx. 300 (with no symptoms), then kidney will fail in 15 years.
If we exercise everyday, we can delay memory loss.
If we do knees exercise, they will be good till 70-75 years.
If we have high cholesterol with no symptoms, it will dramatically increases the risk of heart attack.
Increased BP (with no symptoms) will lead to sudden stroke where half of the body gets paralyzed (right side of the body gets paralyzed and patient loses speech also).
In our day to day life we have simple steps to deal with these conditions as we have simple yearly tests available. We must have awareness about all these tests.
If we get these regular tests done at recommended interval and maintain our numbers within the normal range, then we can add 15-30 years healthy to our life, and extend lifespan up to 85 years.